"So top ka ba?", I would normally prospective partners quite directly.
Unsuspecting tops would feel intimidated by this very simple question while the embarrassed bottoms would feel a bit insecure. The versas would remain unaffected which is exactly the reason why I rarely sleep with them, rarely not never.
But what's with roles and the blogs that discuss them? Blame Mugen since he started this whole discussion - I am just too happy to join the bandwagon. After all, I have single handedly managed to whore-ify my image online in less than a year anyway.
When people ask me my question, I would respond without batting an eyelash.
"Bottom ako."
I go for dominating tops - I refuse to be topped by someone who's less dominant than I am. And since I cannot speak for others, let me just speak for myself:
"I excel in what I do and I have everything at my disposal...
... I am the king of everything in my life
... so I don't see anything wrong with being the catcher in bed."
Many people automatically equate being the bottom to submissive behavior while being the top is automatically equated to dominance. This is so totally not true and I am now going to make a very controversial statement:
"Bottoms rule."
Based on my rather limited (or is it limitless) experience, the catcher holds the power. The only consideration is that the catcher should know that he CAN rule the sack. Without this understanding of his power, the catcher can never be king.
Let me end this post with a series of thought-provoking questions:
- If you're a top: "Have you ever been with a power bottom?"
If you haven't, try it. You will most definitely have fun. Just be safe.
- If you are a bottom: "How good are you in bed?"
Work on it and I guarantee you success.
- If you are power bottom: "Do you live nearby?"
Stay away from Ortigas. Just kidding. :)
- If you are a power top:"What's your number?"
And no, I am not kidding.
Blogger's Note: Just before I posted this online, I had to ask someone who wishes to remain anonymous how I fared in bed. He replied, "On a scale of 1-10... one million ka.". I almost fell off my bed laughing. Case closed.
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it's not all about sex.
people hee think they befriend someone...
just for the sex.
and this comment dispels it.
p.s. i'm the guy your tags warned about, so watch out.
im delusional!self absorbed!ahaahaha
@Anonymous OMG is it... OMG... kinikilig ako. :) Thanks for dropping by.
do u have any idea who am i?
hehehe.
i guess i generate bad publicity from commenting on blogs.
i've been with a powerranger before ayyy powerbottoms ba?!ano yun?LOL
Does anonymous go by the name Tristan Tan? :D
i guess revelations are meant to those who deserve it.
geez, even in this gay blog world, it's hard to find a friend!hehehe
Unsuspecting tops would feel intimidated by this very simple question while the embarrassed bottoms would feel a bit insecure. The versas would remain unaffected which is exactly the reason why I rarely sleep with them, rarely not never.
- I'm a bit surprised that you can't sense a top from a bottom. So ibig sabihin mas expert ako sayo? And mind you, I don't have to directly ask the person kung Top ba siya o Bottom. Hahahaha.
@Mugen I just need confirmation. Besides, it's quite fun to ask to the question and see shocked faces.
i love your blog!!!
astig.
im reading it while taking calls. cant believe na nag stay ako sa ofis for an extra 30 min just to read your blog.
astig.
this one particular article piqued my attention to comment.
will be referring the link to friends.
be happy!
remain forever young.
_peterpan
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