Comments on Tristan Tales: I Want To Know What Love Is

you're in love with someone when he made you c...

2009-11-09T16:48:02.002-05:00

you're in love with someone when he made you change for the better, without him even trying...

at least, that's how it is for me...

"And then there was this boy who I thought I ...

2009-11-09T14:36:56.130-05:00

"And then there was this boy who I thought I had fallen in love with. He was actually quite a charmer - eloquent, fun and fairly decent looking. He was someone I could have seen myself grow old with (Blogger's Note: Now this makes me want to throw up...)- give or take a few minor adjustments. He was just like me, only different. It never worked out - what I had thought as love was something else - it was friendship. And yes, friendship does not equal romantic love."

parang kilala ko 'to. haha iYM kita pag naabutan kita.

do you wanna know what love is? love is... like a rosary. i do not have one. haha

Ang haba-haba ng pasakalye, intro lang pala to Mar...

2009-11-09T03:44:13.891-05:00

Ang haba-haba ng pasakalye, intro lang pala to Mariah Carey. Humph. =)

Ang opening act dapat short lang, HHAHAHA!

Hhhmmm.. Ganyan ka complex ang love. Pero diba da...

2009-11-08T22:57:26.996-05:00

Hhhmmm.. Ganyan ka complex ang love.

Pero diba dapat unconditional ang love? Siguro kapag ganoon na ang naramdaman mo, yun na ang Love na hinahanap mo.

Hey I've been reading this, and i thought I&#...

2009-11-08T20:13:05.291-05:00

Hey

I've been reading this, and i thought I'd share some since coincidentally, eto yung pinagdaanan ko over the past three days.

"Love" is not exactly about sacrificing and waiting, it doesn't mean you waited for the person for how many months or years, means that you truly love the person. No exactly true also, that if you sacrifice so much for a person, that you also love the person. Sacrificing, waiting and all other efforts that you do towards the one you "love" are just manifestations of what you really feel towards him. so either way, you could be sacrificing, waiting and doing all efforts to show him that you love him, but deep down, your intentions of doing them should be clear. Kaya tama ka, love is not necessarily love, either pride, friendship, lust, etc etc.. andami, ang hirap..

I had this guy, we met last year. since then minahal ko na siya. but i wasn't out yet. i never accepted me being gay yet so much as i would like to be with him, i shunned him. fast forward 1 year, nagkaroon ako ng relationship with somebody else. pero siya pa din mahal ko. so when we got reconnected last month, i gave up my other (although dwindling, and rightfully apt to give up) relationship for him. He said he was falling for me so, the heck, i'll give it a shot, e gusto ko naman siya eh. i fell in love with him, so much, pero di ko pa siya nakikilala nun. he said i have to bear with him, if i can handle his popularity. me being this naive person, sige, mahal kita eh.

last friday, he opted to cancel out on me to be with his friends. nagtampo ako. eh nga naman, nagkikita kami weekends nalang, cancelado pa. so nagtampo ako. last sunday, dahil sa isang maling hirit lang, na hindi ko din alam bakit ko nahirit as a joke, he wanted to put everything on hold. i was devastated. but then, after bucket loads of tears, a handful of regrets and a much wanted kick in the behind for being so childish as to beg for love, ayun. natauhan na ako.

I still love him, but i will have to learn and get used to the fact that happily ever afters are not part of reality. they don't exist. I realized that i have to grow up and face reality that i will lose people, more importantly people that i really love the most. that sooner or later, i will have to learn to bear with losses and deal with pain.

so is this, what i'm feeling for him, love? probably. will it last forever, i don't know. i'd like to hope so. will this work out? i'd like to hope so too, but if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world. i'd be shaken, but i'll stand firm in the end and be a stronger person afterwards. :o)

mahirap sagutin ang katanungan kong ano ba ang pag...

2009-11-08T17:09:28.492-05:00

mahirap sagutin ang katanungan kong ano ba ang pag-ibig.

mayruon kasing ibat bang dimensyon ito.

at ibang paliwanag.

siguro ang tanging masasabi ko lamang ay magpakatatag ka.

dahil marami pa tayong kakaharapin na pagsubok bago natin matukoy kung ano nga ba ang tunay na depinisyon ng pag-ibig

sana wag kang mapagod

Well uve found me, now u will know what love is......

2009-11-08T15:26:58.261-05:00

Well uve found me, now u will know what love is.... Naks! Lol I agree with every content of it...great blog!

sarah geronimo, tina arean o mariah carey's ve...

2009-11-08T08:31:13.488-05:00

sarah geronimo, tina arean o mariah carey's version?! ahihihi

maybe it's all of the above

2009-11-08T05:12:24.882-05:00

maybe it's all of the above

hahahaha naging soul searching na agad yung hindi ...

2009-11-08T04:40:30.230-05:00

hahahaha naging soul searching na agad yung hindi mo paglabas kagabi? panalo hahahaaha

but you made really good points here my friend....

Yes, never equate pride with love. When that illus...

2009-11-08T04:40:18.951-05:00

Yes, never equate pride with love. When that illusory connection fails, it's harder to pick up the pieces of your broken self. Bitterness, almost often, wells up from experience.

parang hindi ko din pala alam kung ano ang love. l...

2009-11-08T04:10:57.146-05:00

parang hindi ko din pala alam kung ano ang love. labo ng word na 'yan. nakakasakit lang 'yan

hehe it's just me, I hope syempre for the best for you Tristan